Ginny,
If you think back you probably prayed for him to attend 2 aa meetings a day. It took years to become proficient in his drinking. It will take years for him to win the battle of sobriety.
Like said above, work on you. Make yourself a better person and wife. I know its hard but it's the path that you need to take. Hugs my friend, you are blessed he is sober today. Years back I would have given my right arm for that with my axh.