Originally Posted by
margaret379 
He told me how he loves me and how he will get right as long as i stick by his side and dont give him the negativity he said made him relapse. He is currently out visiting his mother and nothing was taken from me although i did feel a needle in his pocket..
Danger, danger.
Look, he is soooo not ready for recovery. He is BLAMING your "negativity" for his relapse. He's not taking responsibility for his addiction. That is literally the first step. The addict acknowledges that he as this awful addiction that is HIS problem and that HE needs to work on. He's not even on the first step! And then he has a NEEDLE in his pocket?
Run!