Originally Posted by
confused0507 
Thank you everyone! My guilt for her is decreasing each day......i just worry about my kiddos and they want to see mom. I'm just not sure what to tell them when they want to go to her apartment. All they see is now mommy is better.......
The single most important thing for them to hear from both of you, over and over, is that is not their fault. Kids always blame themselves and then grow up and find someone just like the alcoholic parent and try to fix them.
Sending you a hug