Originally Posted by
ReadyAtLast 
I know it doesn't seem like it now but you will get over him. He knows you are hurt and devastated yet tells you how happy he is with his new woman. No decent man would do such a thing he sounds nasty vindictive and you're way better off without him. You deserve so much better and hopefully in time you will learn to see that.
This. You need to take care of yourself. Possibly seek some counseling? You do not need someone in your life who is actively using, or who purposely contacts you to tell you how happy he is without you. That is despicable behavior (not the using so much, but rubbing your face in his happiness). He's an addict. He's a user. He has very little remorse for hurting you. Do you want someone like that in your life?
I know it hurts now, but you will definitely be better off in the long run.