HH - sounds familiar.
Now buy yourself a coat as soon as you can and and I would not take the trash out.
My XAH used to throw toddler quality fits at the end of the month when we were of money and he requires expensive cigars. Or nicotine gum because he was trying to quit. He could never decide whether he was smoking or not so always required both at all times. I am ashamed to say I gave up way too many times and put it on my credit card just to shud him up.