Originally Posted by
Nata1980 
I hear narcissists give the worst gifts.
My first husband was a classic Narcissist even if not an A (that I know of). Here are a few of the "gifts" that he gave me on my birthday that I can remember from back then:
"You have everything that you need, everything else is only a want."
"There was a hurricane"
"There was a tragedy (Twin Towers)".
The first one still pings in my head as to what I "need" and what I "want". I think that I have buried the rest as I cannot remember.