I'm sorry to hear you're struggling.
When we get sober, any crap in our life that was there, or coming, can still come or happen. Getting sober does not always equal life instantly becomes awesome, all problems solved.
A lot of good suggestions made by others.
I was also wondering, what sort of program you had going? Did you just quit drinking and thats it or are you working some sort of recovery program?
Do you have a fellowship? Going to counseling? Are you exercising? Are you eating right?
For me, discovering spirituality and discovering/entering into a fellowship is what really helped my life get better. Spending time with sober friends talking about our issues and socializing is what I needed to enjoy sobriety. I wanted to fit in to something, I needed friends who encouraged my sobriety and understood my issues.
CJ