Originally Posted by
TobeC 
You know what yoir reality is. Dont question it. He doesn't seem to know what his reality is.
That's part of an oooold pattern - my parents lying and telling me that what I saw was not real. No, mum is not drunk, just tired. No, dad can't help beating up his girlfriend - she is hysterical!
Most of the time I have become really good at hanging on to my reality, but when I go into codependency, everything fails.
Thanks for being there and generously offering to talk to him. He has to seek it though. Not me
