Do you regret marrying your alcoholic spouse?
When I'm in Alanon some of the stories I hear are absolutely heartbreaking and I often wonder how people can do this for so many years when I am struggling on just a couple. I recently heard a gal speaking who was getting ready to celebrate a wedding to her qualifier in recovery. Everyone was excited for her but I had this terrible thought of "why is she doing this?"....in no way do I mean that A's do not deserve a lifetime of love like anyone else, but knowing what you know today, would you have made the same decision?
Do you feel your love was enough to weather this hurricane of a storm?