Daisy, I feel for you. My husband doesn't view his addiction as a problem, and so he doesn't care to talk to me about it or support me in my decision to quit. Right now, I don't care. I'm doing this for me... not him. I found SR for support and now I'm going to check into meetings (including Al Anon)... Hopefully, someday he will want to join me. If not, that's fine with me right now. That's why I'm here.
Wishing you the best