I'm in the same place. The reality for me is that I needed to find my tribe of people who were just like me. I did find them over time and I talk about recovery-related issues with them vs. in such detail with my partner. For me it was like being pregnant....the people that got most what I was going through were people who were or had been pregnant. It doesn't mean I didn't talk with people who weren't pregnant....there were just some issues that only people who had been pregnant would understand.