To allowing the right things to happen....
I was offered a new home care case where there is a woman who is bed bound, should be hospice technically, and her son lives with her. He is in his fifties and lonely and kinda chatty. So I could decline the case, simply because I had a bad experience before with a male relative of a client developing feelings for me because he was lonely and I entertained him. But since I do learn from my mistakes, I know I won't let it happen again.
Today is day 100 of my sobriety. I feel like I should only be moving forward, not letting anything that happened in the past, no matter how recent, hold me back.