Being honest with your wife about
looking into some help concerning
your alcohol intake and it's affects
on you physically, emotionally,
financially...mainly that its not
healthy for you anymore and
possibly talking to your physician
about it.
Just talk to her, communicate with
her that having alcohol in your system
is causing more harm than good and
you need help addressing it.
She can even go with you to the
doctor and the 2 of you can discuss
ways to get sober and apply a
program of recovery to help
you before things really get
bad in your life, marriage, work.
Getting the help you need now
may save you from further embarrassment,
shame, guilt, and other personal problems.