That's the thing.....I wonder if she is truly remorseful of the affair or the fact that she got caught. The drinking I'm sure was a big part of the affair. Trust me I saw the drinking and guilt get worse the longer it went on. The level of anger and guilt that was directed at me was insane.
So everyone telling me a couple weeks of sobriety will not allow a person to see things clearly yet? How long does it take for someone to get back to normal, if ever.