Sorry for how you are feeling right now. Like others have said above focus on your sobriety, and clearing your head. Take some time to work on you, and once you have done that you can see where the relationship is, and if you feel exploring options of friendship or more are what toy you want.
As alcoholics we are sometimes creatures of habit, step away from her, focus on getting sober, and see how you look at the sitatuon a few months down the road.