Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
hon, has he quit drinking?? like for good?
you'd know it if you saw it.
AnvilheadII - you are correct and at the moment I don't see a sober man. Is it alcohol or pills, maybe still both, who really knows. I have a plan, this will just take a minute to put it in place, In the meantime I am trying to mind MY business to keep my peace of mind.
Just yesterday he said to me something about being patient in regards to the disease. My response to him was "I have been patient for the entire 18 years of our marriage, I'm tired". I know recovery takes time but I don't see the drive in him to recover like he had over the summer - I just don't see it,
I hate addiction....