Originally Posted by
honeypig 
That's exactly it, tthg. And all the time and energy that you put into studying and reading and thinking and researching about HER problem will A) do not a damn thing to change her, B) do not a damn thing to change the situation, and C) waste time and energy you could be using to heal your OWN life, which is something that IS within your power to affect..
and the more energy you put into researching HER problems and not looking in solutions for YOU, you are sill giving her control over you. you are still her hostage.
have you had enough yet?
are you ready to be free?
yes, the email is completely false( look at where the information is coming from) and not who you are.