Wtf just happened?!
It's been kind of weird lately, maybe the past 2 weeksish. I'm pretty cooperative about him and he girls seeing each other. Last week, I took the girls out there and we were all supposed to do lunch. We got there about 1pm, picked him up from work, and he said he needed to pick his bike up from a friends...didn't want to drive it after drinking. He said it was about 4 miles away. So we headed that way...past the 4 miles..overshot by like 4 miles. Had to turn around and he told me to park around the corner so no one knew he was taking his bike (why??) It was just weird, fishy. So I parked around the corner. He came around the corner and I follwed him back to where he is staying to drop his bike off. Not only was this about a 30 mile round trip, me and the girls waited outside for over 20 minutes for him to come back out to leave. Said dudes wife wouldn't stop talking. At this point im fed up...so we went to McDonald's with the girls instead of olive garden like they wanted to. Didn't have time with the 3 bs hours of driving him around. When we dropped him off he asked for $12 to do his plates on his bike. Because his money went to rent and Yada Yada yada. I gave in, was just like whatever. This situation pissed me off.
However, what happened tonight, I'm not sure if there are words for how I feel. Took him 5 hours to get here (driving should have been 45min-1rs tops). Told me he was leaving soon in the morning. 5 hours later he finally shows up. He didn't really pay attention to the girls. He argues that. I had school tonight so he was with my mom and the girls tonight. Girls got dressed in their costumes before I left for school and apparently he was in the bathroom for 15 minutes. They were waiting on him to go trick or treating. So I get home from school and I'm in the bathroom and notice my jewelry cases are moved along with a few other items around there. My first thought was darn kids, until I opened one of hem to put something back in it and I noticed the engagement is missing along with my mother in laws ring on a chain. My thoughts switched from darn kids to wtf, xaf? If it were the kids, I'm sure I would have been able to find them out in the open. They don't normally stash things, they dont even play in my cases! I of course questioned...and maybe accused him. And you know what, if you're going to take them, just tell me, and I'd let them go.
Who can guess what happens next?
He denies it.
Things just don't match up. My first instinct is him. On soo many different things. He doesn't get it!
But wtf just happened?!
There's no way he's not using. Am I right?! I feel so stupid, even though I've had my suspicions, I didn't believe them. But is there such a thing where no matter what, you always blame them first? I wouldn't blame him if I didn't have a reason and I think my reasons are pretty legit. He passed out, maybe nodded off, when he first got to the house. I was told he nodded off later after they got back from trick or treating. I found open candy all over my room, living room was a mess, kitchen a mess. I walked in from school a little after 11pm to my youngest awake, sitting in the recliner with a yogurt, spilled all over her and the chair. And xaf standing up and he looked like he just woke up.
How can a parent be like him? The girls are amazing!! And he does that?
Man, I'm not going to be so cooperative anymore. Efforts on him, not me.
Long vent, sorry, but seriously, I'm still thinking wtf?!