thank you.
it is an unequivocal no.
I know this hands down.
He's nice enough.
I'm afraid of being alone. Considering I ended my marriage that destroyed my identity (he was an addict). The fall out was my co dependency. I'm so worried about everyone else I keep failing to see what I want. And I'm afraid to trust my gut instincts. My gut tells me that despite what might be ok for me, it's not really ok for my kiddos. And that's where I don't know how to end it with someone. I can't be with him because it's not good for my kids--my feelings aside, they need a good role model who gives selflessly to them.