Great job on telling your wife, spouses who aren't addicted are kinda tricky to talk to though,seems that they just don't understand, my hubs has seen me at my rock bottom and now when I get the urge to drink he says"just take it easy with it" what?!?! After all I've put us through ge says that? So now I don't discuss this with him,he's top nonchalant about a serious problem, hope your situation goes better