Originally Posted by
BrendaChenowyth 
I was instructed to just call the agency's on call number tomorrow night if he comes.. I'm not gonna lock him out, I'm gonna take him on faith, but I will watch for his car from the living room window and excuse myself if we comes over. I really don't want to lose money and a job and mess up what is otherwise a smooth going situation.
(I'm not gonna lock because it created a scene that disturbed Auntie to a degree and I don't want to repeat and possibly escalate)
Do you really think that is a wise move? He's a drunk and involved in an extramarital relationship to boot. I'd follow your employers instructions to the T. If you keep leaving openings ( in this case literally ) for him to open the door and keep the relationship alive that's exactly what he'll do.