You know guys It is 4:00 in the morning and here I am up now, can not go back to sleep, checking email. I hope that I can get back to sleep but just wanted to thank you all for your replies it helped me out a lot. Today they start there convention here for the weekend and I don't know if I should even go. I love those things so much back home but I hate being in big crowds too. I probably should make the first move and go, maybe push myself on some people that are at the group, I think one of the reasons that I don't get to involved is the fear of hurting someone, not being liked, maybe my expectations, I donno. But just wanted to say thank you all for your reply and as far as the basket thing WTF I did not know what to do with it when I recieved it, LOL I am not use to the computer junk yet.
Love Vic