Originally Posted by
velma929 
Relationships aren't reform school. This is who she is. You can accept her for who she is and the limitations that presents, or decide that while you love her, the two of you aren't meant to ride off into the sunset together.
That's pretty hard hitting. The problem I'd have if I did decide to leave is that it would feel like I would be giving up on her that and the results of the break up could make her situation even worse.