I am aware I cannot change him.
But im just not sure how I can react to him.
Should I still be a friend to him so he feels comfortable to come to me if he needs help?
Or is it time to shut him down??
I have laid to rest two friends in the last two years to overdoses. Sharing a child with him would destroy me completely if its his turn next, and I fear its close than he thinks.
So I want to be able to be there if he needs me, but at the same time keep our daughter safe and myself sane....
should I put my rage at him aside so he can still call me and I can support him from afar??