Hi and welcome cms
coming here is a good first step.
Not sure if you do the most of your drinking at home or not, but an alcohol free house really helped me.
Really use the support here too. Read around, ask questions - maybe join a few threads like our October support thread -
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...art-2-a-2.html
see what others are doing to stay sober
SR helped me turn my life around - I know we can help you do the same
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