in 1980 after high school i took my 1st drink got very drunk and beat on my best friend who was holding my car keys so i wouldnt drive ... end of frienship
in 1992 i tried to make amends ... he wouldnt see me
in 2000 i heard his father died so that prompted me to try again to make amends ... he wouldnt see me
in 2010 we had our 30 year high school reunion ... i called to see if he would go and try to make amends ... he wouldnt talk to me
so then it was 30 years after my offense and 3 amend tries over 18 years
my sponsor said if i continue with my living amends (helping people around me) we will consider this amend closed
