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Old 10-16-2016, 08:55 AM
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timetohealguy
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Originally Posted by Babyswiss View Post
But My parents have chosen to not talk to me anymore because I plan on marrying him. ...

He comes from a large family that is very nice and practices forgiveness. My family consists of just my dad, mum, and sister - there are more extended family members but my parents stopped talking to them over ten years ago for reasons I don't quite know because I was young when this all happened.
I've read a number of books and articles about emotional cut offs.

Forgiveness and communication is the key in those situations.

These are clickable links to the books I found most useful ...

https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Cut...dp/0789014602/

https://www.amazon.com/Not-Speaking-...dp/0393707040/

https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Famil...dp/0071412425/

https://www.amazon.com/FORGIVENESS-N...dp/1935097792/

https://www.amazon.com/Make-Peace-An...dp/0312310013/

You will also find a bunch of articles on this topic here ...

https://www.google.com/search?q=emotional+cut+off
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