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Babyswiss But My parents have chosen to not talk to me anymore because I plan on marrying him. ...
He comes from a large family that is very nice and practices forgiveness. My family consists of just my dad, mum, and sister - there are more extended family members but my parents stopped talking to them over ten years ago for reasons I don't quite know because I was young when this all happened.
I've read a number of books and articles about emotional cut offs.
Forgiveness and communication is the key in those situations.
These are clickable links to the books I found most useful ...
https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Cut...dp/0789014602/ https://www.amazon.com/Not-Speaking-...dp/0393707040/ https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Famil...dp/0071412425/ https://www.amazon.com/FORGIVENESS-N...dp/1935097792/ https://www.amazon.com/Make-Peace-An...dp/0312310013/
You will also find a bunch of articles on this topic here ...
https://www.google.com/search?q=emotional+cut+off