Plans
Okay, so I took the advice and went looking for plan ideas and I am writing a list of triggers and how to avert them.
About my husband's habits, I will never ask him to do something he clearly does not want to. He is mindful, only buys enough for himself and never asks me to grab him anything. His drinking has never been the reason I have ever picked back up. I'm taking responsibility for all of my own actions. He's successful, a great father, and we are happy, his drinking has not gotten in the way of all that, but mone certainly have.
I'm brainstorming about irl people to talk to, but I don't have tons of friends so I have like two people on my list.
There's so much to consider and the plan will change as time goes on.
Today, I've been successful, hubs did bring booze in the house and I had an iced la croix and now heating up my tea. I had a killer workout and ate really well today, all in all I'm a happy camper. 🌻🤗😎❤