Originally Posted by
FireSprite 
I am of the same mindset - the OP reminds me of a favorite quote:
“You should be angry. You must not be bitter. Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. It doesn’t do anything to the object of its displeasure. So use that anger. You write it. You paint it. You dance it. You march it. You vote it. You do everything about it. You talk it. Never stop talking it.”.... Maya Angelou
You are making great headway 3littlebirds!!
I don't know how to not be bitter. I know that sometimes when I get angry I clean furiously lol. But that's only in the moment. I don't want to think about all the anger, but I don't want to bury it either. This is a hard road when you're used to ignoring all the bad things.