KidsR.......if you would like to find o ut what questions to ask your lawyer, when you have your consultation.....
There is a website.....womansDivorce.com.....that I believe will be very helpful for you. It covers most all common issues that come up in a divorce, and it is listed by states. It is meant to be educational in nature, and is NOT meant to replace your own lawyer. It also, lists lots of resources for you....
The more you know....the more confident you will feel....
Knowledge is power