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Old 10-01-2016, 10:49 PM
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Morning all. Why is it when you can have a lie in and don't have to get up for work you wake at 5.30 !!!!!!!!!!

Welcome Angie.

Bowski - using the behaviour of others as a reason for us to drink is classic 'Beast' behaviour. Any reason to have a drink and all that. We get sober for ourselves and the only thing we can control is ourselves. You can't control what other people say and do but you CAN control how you react to them and what your next steps will be.

Maybe your wife was just having a bad day, maybe she was feeling ill or emotional about her father. Maybe she's worried about something or having work issues. We take things out on those closest to us. Breathe, walk away then give her a hug. (I'm female-hugs work )

As Dee says, it will blow over and it certainly isn't worth drinking over.

Happy Sober Sunday everyone.x
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