Originally Posted by
dandylion 
"I couldn't give him what he wanted"
I think it is just as important to say to yourself:
"He couldn't give me what I wanted"......
That would be an example f turning negative self talk into positive self talk...
what we say to ourselves is even more important that what others say to us.....
Yes! Thank you
I am still so outwardly focused, it's been a hard habit to break. I see the old dynamic still playing out in my thought patterns... I'll get there...