dailystruggle.....I just re-read your post....and I just have to make another comment...lol....
I noticed where he said..."are you o.k.? I hate to think of y ou upset".
WHAT A STATEMENT!
It sounds like he has the insight of a fruit fly.
You could have said: "Yes, I am upset that I was blind enough to live for 15yrs. with a drunk....and drug my kids through that hell. But--not to worry...because I am now on the journey of MY own recovery, Mr. Arrogance. Save your concern...I haven't got time for this crap any longer."