boy, that sure is a LOt of insanity you've put up with.
PLEASE take these peoples advise FOR YOU.
as for him, hopefully some day his Higher Power helps him hear the distinct popping sound of his head comin out of his arse, he gets some q tips and cleans the crap out of his ears, and starts listening to what THE program of AA is.
then maybe he can truly work THE program and not his.