Hey, I read the post and for your current situation: he sound like piece of sh@t. He is not in recovery if he thinks you let him down! Be very careful he lied, drove your kids around while drunk, was completely irresponsible (not taking of the kids nor working). He was no support to you and now he blames you for what!??!! BE VERY CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR. he is not cured or on way to recovery with his attitude. You let him back and he will do even worst to you.