Oh and by the way, tomorrow is my soon to be ex's birthday. I say soon to be cause we haven't had that talk yet, just the usual no talking. What do I do? I haven't even bought a card. Do I break up tomorrow on his birthday? Or today at some point. I'm sure he is hungover and tired and in no mood for me. But if I cooked and cleaned for him and rubbed his back he would be all about it, maybe not this time.
My mom told me to just keep thinking of my move and to be kind and just agree so not to argue or escalate. And not to share my plan until I actually have it in place.