jodc, the 2 daily meetings (7am/6pm) are a mix of men and women. It's pretty much universally agreed that everybody likes it that way...gives a little broader perspective on topics, etc. Our group does have 1-women only and 1-men only meetings per week for those who prefer that. We do a "revolving chair person" type format. A good chairperson is responsible for keeping the meeting within scope and quieting any unwanted crosstalk.
Anyhoo, you might want to try another AA meeting.....and maybe not a women's only one. Just a thought.