Trachy, that sounds great!
Duff, even under the best of circumstances, I don't think a divorce is easy.
Gilmer, my daughter is having a tough time of it. She doesn't want my help and so I am hanging back. It's painful even after all of these years. However, I'm at a point in my life where I feel it's finally time to take care of me - that feels selfish but I don't think there's much I can do that would be helpful.