Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
As a sort of middle ground, you could agree to keep paying for the counselor and psychiatrist as long as he keeps going, but let him navigate his other expenses, himself. I think you and his sponsor are right, that he isn't using the resources available to him. If you make him leave your home, but still provide those supports for him, you aren't leaving him high and dry, but you might be forcing him to actually USE those resources to make his life better.
Just a thought.
We aren't paying for his therapist and psychiatrist, the government is. One thought I've had is to pay the entrance fee and first three weeks of his rent in a local halfway house and cut him off after that. They give them 1 week to find a sponser and 2 weeks to get a job. I would HOPE we'd have the courage to tell him no more money at that point.