Might I also interject something here? A point that was brought home by the evil one himself..my exh. He would be angry..say if I were to come on to him or whathaveyou...then I realized after talking to our doc that he was using the excuse of anger to cover the fact that as a raging alcolohic...he was having..ummmmm shall we say "man problems" and had performance demands that he couldnt live up to. So he got angry, pulled away from me and had me believing that it was all my fault.
Just a tidbit.