kgr -- congratulations on 30 days!
Re the goat, if it were me, my emotions would still be in a whirl. Stay calm and focused. It will be alright.
Do you know the phrase 'keep my side of the street clean"? You & your husband did nothing mean or offensive or destructive. Keep it that way. Leave those others alone and take good care of yourself by staying sober. Unless they get up in your face, you don't have to deal with them directly.