Thanks for part 2, Dee.
I didn't quite ruin college with drinking. My freshman year is a bit of a blur but I buckled down and didn't party much after that. I was too busy working and studying. I didn't get out of control on a regular basis until right after my first divorce, but when I got married again and had my son I was good for several years again. It was only the last maybe 4 years of my drinking that I got to a point I could not control it at all, or very little. But I packed plenty of really stupid stuff into those years. I'm so glad that's over. It really wasn't much fun.