Originally Posted by
Bekindalways 
I don't quite get the "If it feels good, don't do it." but maybe it is some version of "Listen to your feelings but don't dance to them".
If it feels good, don't do it for me is a lot like don't dance to your feelings.
For me, I urge to start those conversations because I think it will feel good.
But your quote does actually make much more sense. :-).