Originally Posted by
Nata1980 
In my expeience, addicts go after overly responsible grown up women in long term relationships. Think about why he tells you about all the details of his new "relationship".
You are worth much better than that - as for the GF, you have not heard her side of the story, plus it is all new and is bound to deteriorate. Especially if GF is needy and whiny - alcoholics don't like to empathize and want spotlight on them and their problems only.
I told him I have two therapists. He said how come all the women I'm with have Therapist? Then asked what meds I was on. Told him I'm not on any meds. So for that and other reasons I think the new gf has issues. I suppose it was a feather in his cap.
I thought I was through with my whining but I guess I'm not. Thanks for responding