I know , Linz. Long ago, a man I had loved married someone else. This made me very sad. I shared the sadness with my then SO, now my husband. All he said was, "what? You think (so and so) will never see another bad day?" That has always stayed with me, particularly when I am glimpsing other people's seemingly trouble-free lives. Everyone has their sorrows. We just don't know what they are. Peace.