those first ten days are a real slog.....
then comes the first year.... which can be very tough at times, but which is punctuated - if you're looking for it actively - by a lot of learning, growth, insight..... a lot to be grateful for.
then comes the second year - wherein you begin to deeply and fully realize the gift you've been given; even though at times it's still a lot of work.
and then the third year arrives - and you wonder how it is you could ever have been that person before..... and every single day you're reminded how blessed you are; that you've left that hell behind you... that you've opened your life to a deeper abundance than you ever realized.
and all of it starts with those first ten days.
well done.