Can you go somewhere to get regular urine or blood tests? This is something I'm battling with too. The courts want proof of sobriety. This one just stumps me. Because I know that everything I come up with to show that I'm sober won't be good enough and there is no where I can get regular testing not even in a rehab facility.
Can you get those letters from your sponsor and employer?
That is what I have been instructed to do along with my counselor.
Every time I follow the court order I get denied visitation anyways.
I mean really, you could do a breathalyzer test before you pick them up if it comes right down to it. Did you ask the mediator about it? Although it seems demeaning, and it would to me too, if that's what it takes... maybe it's worth a shot if it isn't good enough for her?