Agreed about the physical violence thing. I think that my AH has turned every emotion I've ever had into Enabling, Weakness, Abuse........anything that turned the responsibility from his sh*tty behavior back to me. Did I mention that I was responsible for famine in Ethiopia? LOL
So, while I agree that she may've been out of line this time -- is it possible that she's at her breaking point and needs to step away until he makes a lifestyle change?
Beating the p*ss out of him (which he probably deserves) aside, that's the only point I was looking at.