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Old 08-29-2016, 11:27 AM
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I see what both Bruno and you are saying, Nalanda.

I have fallen for the trap of reaching goals before and drinking to celebrate it, I have also fallen for the trap of not having goals at all and convincing myself there was no problem in drinking.

The solution for me is a combination of he two. My approach to not drinking is the same as Bruno's, I just don't do it anymore. Nobody to call, no protocol to avoid alcohol, the only thing I do is come here often to remind myself and also socialise with like minded people.

On the other hand I have set some ridiculously big targets in life. Things that will keep me busy for years to come, will take work every single day and just can't happen if I am drinking.

Guess my point is that there is only ever one approach that is correct for each person, but that is unique for everyone.

My advice for anyone writing a plan is to not only look at what others are doing and their suggestions, but to also take a deep look at yourself and understand both who you are and who you want to be.

It's awesome that you have a plan and you are structuring it Nalanda!

Best of luck for everyone!

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