Hi all,
Well, I'm a single man again and can't really say I'm sorry about it. I was obviously in some kind of funk. She wanted me to move down to Bradford-on-Avon this year from Leicester but with the age my kids are that live in the midlands, and having a stable job particularly after Brexit, and a couple of debts I'd need to clear first I said 4 to 5 years. But that wasn't good enough for her. She needs someone to make her happy rather than working on her own happiness. So we mutually decided to end it. We had some good times but she's still drinking and our conversations made it clear that she wanted me to dance to her tune without any regard for my circumstances. I best restart working on myself so I don't fall into the same narcissists trap again with someone else in the future. Time for some me-time for a while. I'm taking my kids to Dawlish next week for a well deserved holiday. Thanks for reading, you're all brilliant !